When I was “out there” I was in the apartment of one if the guys who traded access to his space for drugs. No matter what you gave him or paid him he made relentless demands for sex. If a woman wanted to come in and she had no drugs or money then, yes, sex…
Even though I was engaged in Non-traditional sex, I had to be on the lookout for biases, assumptions, and other forms of mental rigidity. Threesome participation does not guarantee an open mind.