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“Hitting Bottom”–What an Addiction Myth, Part 1

Addicts do not need to hit bottom Forget what you have heard about hitting bottom. The concept of hitting bottom is reliant on the assumption that the person with the addiction will come to a certain point where she realizes that her present state of being is the worst it could possibly be, or at…

December 5, 2024
IV Drug Use and Medical Condemnation as a barrier to help

During your regular life it is somewhat easy to cover up what you do to yourself physically. If you live in a cold enough climate you can always wear long sleeves or some other sort of disguise to conceal from prying eyes where you inject the drugs. Over time, and not very much time at…

November 19, 2024
Japanese Internment Camp News Gives Me Hope, Mostly

I am so glad that someone in authority has made an effort to do something about a racial injustice. I have been criticized for being offended about wrongs done to people who aren’t black. People think I have enough anger for my own race, and besides, and other races have their own advocates. Sure, that…

October 14, 2022
Streetife was insidiously easy

There are factors in Honolulu, Hawaii that made living on the street easy. It’s easy to be poor, as long as you don’t want for more. The ease of poverty here is both a good news, bad news story. All my needs and some of my wants… When I was in my 20’s I was…

July 11, 2022
Streetife was insidiously easy

There are factors in Honolulu, Hawaii that made living on the street easy. It’s easy to be poor, as long as you don’t want for more. The ease of poverty here is both a good news, bad news story. All my needs and some of my wants… When I was in my 20’s I was…

July 11, 2022
Live Audio: childbirth on crack

INTRO: The overall purpose of the posts are to show, with intelligence and honesty, what it’s like to live a life consumed by addiction and its taboo offshoots (such as adult services, theft, etc…). Find out how it feels to be addicted through the accompanying audio. You DON’T want to miss this brief and totally…

January 22, 2022
You will know which sex commentator is male and which is female

We understand gender differences more than we realize.

September 22, 2021
Hatred for sex workers is accepted by polite society

Polite society is Om with maiming sure the pariahs know their place

March 23, 2021
An ex-sex worker looks back at how it felt to head for a “date” with a client

September 18, 2020
Is self condemnation the key 🔑 to progess

I disagree with the idea that you should be ashamed of where you’ve been. Certainly, it might be true that you’d be reasonable to cringe when remembering your recent stress. I am familiar with being embarrassed about where I have been. No one judges me more harshly than I do. However I want to try…

September 11, 2020
My Lips: Today’s Sexy, Yesterday’s Shame, The Future’s Hope

As a kid I was bullied by white kids over my full lips. Now look!

August 6, 2020
COVID-19 and AIDS–Different Public Faces

COVID-19 VS. AIDS and changes I can make permanently

March 11, 2020
How Being Raised by Adults Who Spent Their Childhoods Being Poor and Black Effected my School Work

It’s hard to see how past racism has a present day impact so I will give you my real world example.

March 1, 2020
Ben Franklin Was Wrong About Secret Keeping in One Way

“Three can keep a secret if two if them are dead,” is a quote attributed to Ben Franklin. We see much evidence that secret keeping might be impossible when we look at what happens when people get arrested. The Mafia had a code members adopted that had, at it’s heart, never cooperate with law enforcement.…

February 4, 2020
Fun in Addiction. There’s two sides to every story, including the opposite of the devastation.

Pursuing Your Addiction is a Surefire Way to Meet People

December 30, 2019
How to Make Talking to an Addict You Love Worth Your While by Doing These Five Things

How to tslk to your beloved addict successfully

December 22, 2019
Penis Size– Intimacies Shared by a Male Fan

A reader comments in response to a blog about the importance of penis size to a working girl by giving the male perspective about penis size from a youth to an adult man.

September 18, 2019
Did you discover your much older “sister” is really your mother and your “parents” are actually your grandparents?

Is your much older sister really your mother and you found out? If so you discovered a cultural double standard

September 15, 2019