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Tag: selfesteem

Is self condemnation the key 🔑 to progess

I disagree with the idea that you should be ashamed of where you’ve been. Certainly, it might be true that you’d be reasonable to cringe when remembering your recent stress. I am familiar with being embarrassed about where I have been. No one judges me more harshly than I do. However I want to try…

September 11, 2020
I am special if he sees me as a sex object—right?

I was wrong I thought I was special if a man wanted to have sex with me. I thought men were choosy. Men are indeed choosy but not in the way I thought. Men are quite often willing to have sex with anyone, and if no one is going to find out that group expands…

September 7, 2020
Ivy League Meets the Street: Who is the Expert Escort?

I wanted to prove my worth to myself bc all the people who told me I wasn’t worth adopting, was only an affirmative action token in college, they convinced me I had something to prove. I don’t have that offer if proof and this blog is about what street life taught me.

March 8, 2020
What’s Really Going on in my Soul

There’s a reason I write this blog, well many reasons, but there’s something I want to prove be presenting my resume and my record.

March 4, 2020
Money and Status: Old Money, New Money Vs. Quiet Money

old .Oney and new money is wealth others know about and they judge you by these types of wealth. Quiet money is very different from old and new money.

February 5, 2020
Insightful Reader Comment on the post “Mean Words From a Nice Trick and Why I Kept Seeing Him”

Mean Words From a Nice Trick and Why I Kept Seeing Him–follow the link to see the original article about a trick who was so nice which I liked until I found out why I appealed to him. Hint: He was no longer interested in this, so the fact that I was not this made…

December 24, 2019
Look at these models who show us that black really is beautiful, so is white and brown. My childhood as an ugly kid could have been different if pictures of these beauties had been the norm.

Models like the ones shown in this blog did not always look like this rainbow array of women. The lack of anyone who looked like me in the sources that declared themselves beauty experts told me and those around me, that I was ugly. But that was then. Times really do change.

December 20, 2019