Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say

Tag: Motivation

Co-ed Cheerleaders, Sexy, Strong, and Trusting: Watch “Don’t Blink👀” on YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/N376d56V01s?feature=share People with drug addictions, in my opinion, develop trust issues from some form of trauma and/or abandonment. Let me define trust for the purpose of this writing. One way to look at trust is that trust means believing people will do what they say they are going to do. Trust is faith something will…

December 16, 2022
MIND BLOWING Viral vid shows the RIGHT way to be a Stage Parent

https://fb.watch/hmbVvE_yI0/?mibextid=2Rb1fB Big Respect to these dads ❤️ I have always embraced The stereotype of the stage parent as abusive and pushing their dreams on their kids. I have never seen anybody gently correct a child or show the way it’s supposed to be done, teaching that is. I am so impressed that I have seen…

December 11, 2022
God is a God of Chance

God is a God of chance

December 3, 2022
From Harvard elite to Honolulu’s Streets, Every scintillating Hawaii Street Life Post, 2017-2022

Time flies! Five+ years have gone by since I started this blog. At first my writing was a grief reaction. I had been in love with a man who, unfortunately, was mostly gay. But not entirely. Sometimes he really wanted me, when he wasn’t being totally cruel and rejecting. Yes, I was confused, because social…

October 30, 2022
New Paraplegics happier than New Millionaires, and Here’s the reason

Addicts need to understand the serenity prayer BC of twist in our personalities. The Serenity Prayer says “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” I heard a researcher who studies the brain and the power…

October 13, 2022
A linked post about the limits of prayer: The Hands That Help

Advice about prayer

June 5, 2022
TikTok vid shows how to keep on keepin’ on

vm.tiktok.com/TTPdrEumwF/ Without changing expression, have another go at staying upright

January 22, 2022
Maybe I can make a go of being a professional story teller if I explain how I went from elite to the street.

Here’s how I ended up seeing the island of Oahu from the passenger seats of various cars, instead of owning a car myself because the streets I toured were my home.

November 24, 2021
Taboo Honolulu–why do I really write about the forbidden?

Here is a vulnerability I have avoided in the years of writing about Honolulu taboos.

August 15, 2021
The words “I am different” and “this time” fuel self destruction

See my Quota contribution for what you never knew about the motivation of drug users, gamblers, sexual compulsives, etc…Answer to Why do you do a bad habit? by Caroleena Renee https://www.quora.com/Why-do-you-do-a-bad-habit/answer/Caroleena-Renee?ch=99&share=734384ff&srid=1LASI

May 28, 2021
Do Dolphins wonder if humans are intelligent life forms?

Dolphins must puzzle over humans who self destruct.

March 28, 2021
The Fear of Rejection Is a Motivating Factor for both sex worker and client. (Inspiration Post: Fear of Rejection: 3 Simple Tips to Overcome)

Street prostitution looks like a superficial exchange for both provider and client but it might be meeting a deep need to be free of terror

March 25, 2021
Harem Anime–Is There Happiness in Group Intimacy, Like Threesome’s?

A harem is more complex than fun for him

January 31, 2021
I am special if he sees me as a sex object—right?

I was wrong I thought I was special if a man wanted to have sex with me. I thought men were choosy. Men are indeed choosy but not in the way I thought. Men are quite often willing to have sex with anyone, and if no one is going to find out that group expands…

September 7, 2020
Original Happiness Lessons From One Who Seldom Hears Anything New

I am a knowledgeable person with some unique how to be happy lessons to share

February 25, 2020
God’s Wry Sense of Humor

How does the recommendation that we get more sleep to add more time to our lives reveal God’s wry sense of humor?

February 13, 2020
How to actively apply the Bible to Get What You Want and Much More

Yes visualize your success, then leave the method of visualization in the dust to get what you want and then some.

December 18, 2019
Here’s how to go from spending time to time well spent

How do you go from spending time to time well spent–by sharing the memories that create your life with people who can give you a new point of view and hence a new life.

October 31, 2019
From Harvard to Homeless to Homey to Hooker

I went from Harvard graduate, Magna cum Laude (with high honors) to being homeless and turning to sex work to support myself and my drug habit, and being out there as a survivor was shameful and surprisingly thrilling.

November 19, 2018