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Tag: Loneliness

A lonely woman tried to buy friends among street people. Don’t miss Her poignant letter to one

Dear A., I admit I thought I could generate good feelings about me within others by sharing what I have. Surely they honor what I gave and allow me to hang out. No, it’s impossible to by affection, but people will act nice if they are, more or less, paid to do so. I confess…

October 23, 2022
Do you see the two horizontal lines above, to the left and the last part of the site heading? That’s the menu. Click on those two lines for countless posts about Red Light Life In Hawaii! Find life hacks with applicable street wisdom for everyday people.You’ll have access to info about addict behavior. Take a…

January 17, 2022
Rejection and Adult Services can go hand in hand

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January 3, 2022
No one would guess a woman can be treated better than ever in her life within a transactional relationship

First person account of unlikely relationship that’s not live but definite like and what’s more, reliability

October 17, 2021
In-Cel, or Involuntary Celibate–Bitter Misogynistic Trolls

I never heard of the term In-Cel, pronounced like Intel. Tonight I watched a story about a young woman who had a social media presence. She sometimes met her fans whenever she could. She ended up getting killed by a “fan” who wanted her to be monogamous to him but she did not reciprocate the…

September 19, 2021
From Trick to Friend, loneliness motivates me to make the change

Attraction not Promotion AA does not advertise. Meetings don’t recruit members. People look for meetings. I have always maintained that philosophy with clients. I shouldn’t say always. I experimented with reaching out to people who had posted about me on a discussion site. I was instantly branded a weirdo and people told each other they…

August 28, 2021
Hawaii tops the United States in Diversity , see link, but that does not help me

I would love to fit in somewhere if only I could find a place in this diverse place

August 28, 2021
I interviewed pimps, about what they had to offer

I was going to write a post mocking Honolulu pimps but my writing exposed the racism and loneliness within me that kept me from understanding a deeper truth about the pimp-sex worker ideal relationship.

August 14, 2021
Loneliness is what changes sex worker-client interaction from oppression to relationship

Sex work is about loneliness for the client and amazingly, the worker. Surprising stereotype busting truths

July 31, 2021
Violence and Threats Did Not Come My Way for One Reason

When I was “out there” I was in the apartment of one if the guys who traded access to his space for drugs. No matter what you gave him or paid him he made relentless demands for sex. If a woman wanted to come in and she had no drugs or money then, yes, sex…

March 11, 2021
Why do older men allow themselves to be “used”?

It used to amaze me when I watched people, older men, allow themselves to be “used.” I have seen men put up with working girls who stole from them, without even trying to hide their actions. Or maybe they lived with the older man but could not resist the call of downtown Honolulu (locals call…

January 24, 2021
Dead Woman Walking

KoHttp://atomic-temporary-125892413.wpcomstaging.com From The Ivy League to Honolulu’s Streets: Stories+Pix of The Red Light Life Men Who Take Pleasure In A Dead Woman Walking ___ By Caroleena, the author with a point of view like no other Saturday, January 16, 2021, 17:42 hours Honolulu. Hawaii INTRODUCTION “Dead man walking!” is a phrase I learned in…

January 16, 2021
A Profile of a Guy Who Pays For Sex

New post on Brainiac Honolulu Xhookr, Throwback from November 2018 Are Men Who Pay For Sex Sad Sacks or Sickos? by X-Streetwalker Turned Sex Talker Before I got involved with prostitution I had preconceived ideas about the type of men who paid for sex. I possessed no actual facts and so complete was my ignorance that…

September 2, 2020
COVID, Sex Workers, Clients—in HIS words: https://wp.me/p8wemN-1gX

August 31, 2030 I am passionate about maintaining anonymity while giving you the unedited words of participants in the off track segment of society. This is a genuine message sent to me on Facebook by someone I do not know. It is so on topic I know you’ll want to know that your frustration is…

August 31, 2020
People don’t always want to escape prostitution. Sometimes they visit

The surprising thing about homelessness is how much you miss the company

July 28, 2020
Fun in Addiction. There’s two sides to every story, including the opposite of the devastation.

Pursuing Your Addiction is a Surefire Way to Meet People

December 30, 2019
The Long Story: Birth Mother: Why a Lonely Kid Wanted to Find Her

If you understand the desperate isolation produced by my childhood with strangers you’ll know why I was compelled to find my birth mother

November 21, 2019
Shocking Reasons Everyday People End Up On The Street–By Choice!

I do not know how to win friends and influence people. I can’t figure out how I lose friends and alienate people, but I do. Lol.

September 14, 2019
An x-streetwalker should be wiser. They say you can’t con a con. Turns out you can con this one.

I thought I could make my street experience useful by allowing people who are still out there a place to be. Wait! I wrote this intro before. Yet I am about to tell you how my place was searched top to bottom by someone I let in as I lay in bed, sick. Why do…

April 27, 2019
Prostitution Helps the Lonely Hearts, and There are a Lot of Those

It is not just clients who seek to alleviate loneliness, but a certain sex worker had the same trouble. Is it possible that contrary to what many well meaning sdvicates say, prostitution might serve somewhat of a positive purpose in the provider’s life?

November 2, 2018