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Tag: Honolulu

“Hitting Bottom”–What an Addiction Myth, Part 1

Addicts do not need to hit bottom Forget what you have heard about hitting bottom. The concept of hitting bottom is reliant on the assumption that the person with the addiction will come to a certain point where she realizes that her present state of being is the worst it could possibly be, or at…

December 5, 2024
A black eye or two is never a surprise for a woman on the street.

I saw Peggy the fentanyl, or fetty, addict here in Honolulu Hawaii. She had not one, but two, black eyes she was wearing one of the pretty dresses given to her by the client of another girl whose wife buys all of her clothes in sets of threes and then leaves them in their packages…

December 1, 2024
How Addiction Betrays our Brains

Before we start using, we understand “enough” Addiction sneaks up on us. By the time we begin to recognize that we are putting whatever it is that we must have before everyone and everything else, the people around us have been tired of the situation for quite some time. But how can something take possession…

November 13, 2024
Addiction is Routine on double stetoids

What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can? A hallmark of addiction is, it is the first thing you think about when you wake up and it is the first action you take. There are people who only go to sleep if they have a little bit of their…

November 12, 2024
TikTok Video: Women’s Prison Sex Ban Taken Too Far

https://www.tiktok.com/@honolulustreetlife/video/7150847898475842859?_t=8WEyBNiaSgE&_r=1 TikTok Video

October 4, 2022
Street Life Hack #48: how to handle terrible ongoing circumstances

September 28, 2022
2018 journal of a desperate Honolulu woman

I was instructed how to open my Apple account without an iPhone. And what do you know, I found the earnest recollections from the beginning of my blog project. Below you will find thoughts from 2018 of a woman who wanted to hold on to her identity from the distant past as a Harvard grad,…

September 9, 2022
Tiktok: Old? Me?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRPJfA1h/ Just answer that question in the video for me and I’ll be happier. More enlightened, anyway.

August 28, 2022
Tiktok violence and same sex partners in HI women’s prison

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRfWLe1d/

August 26, 2022
1 Minute Tiktok Prison Answer–were people nice?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRyEP2oX/ Follow the link to the tiktok video I’ve invited people to ask me anything about Prison since I am a grad, so tocspeak, from the Ivy league and incarceration. J can use big words when I talk about going to jail, lol! Seriously, I’ve been blown away by the interest. This video is my…

August 18, 2022
Tiktok, Desperate beauty wish

August 10, 2022
Tiktok video Downtown Honolulu

August 5, 2022
https://pin.it/2qCuEiC, Pinterest 57 images

Hawaii Street Life in pix I thought you’d like this Board on Pinterest… https://pin.it/2qCuEiC https://pin.it/4256vYR

August 3, 2022
Puppy donning wig demos forced identity

“Normal” is in the eye of the beholder. “Acceptable” is a social construct not an obvious and immutable truth. Someone can decide a dog should don a wig, and that it was perfectly OK to laugh at the dog, in good fun. But the dog isn’t having any fun while he is forced to wear…

July 24, 2022
Video: addictive sex, gambling, etc, no adventure

July 21, 2022
Audio/video telling provider experience

July 19, 2022
Adults Die unbeknownst to peers in Honolulu’s underworld

When you’re a kid and someone you know dies, like the person is in school with you and they’re in a car accident or they were sick for a long time, you find out cuz everybody finds out. The whole place knows and there’s no doubt about what happened. But when you’re a grown up…

July 19, 2022
Tiktok link “Honolulu’s former open air sex market”

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRh1r1k9/?k=1 @hawaiistreetlife @honolulustreetlife I forget which one of these is My Tiktok handle but if you search for both on Tiktok you will find videos linked to this blog and I will repost on case you missed any.

July 18, 2022
Honolulu drug users render aid

It not necessarily true that people who use drugs together don’t care about each other. It is often assumed that people look upon the overdose of an associate as a chance to rob them and then either dump their their bodies or flee the scene. Yes that happens. But it might surprise you to know…

July 17, 2022
Streetife was insidiously easy

There are factors in Honolulu, Hawaii that made living on the street easy. It’s easy to be poor, as long as you don’t want for more. The ease of poverty here is both a good news, bad news story. All my needs and some of my wants… When I was in my 20’s I was…

July 11, 2022
Streetife was insidiously easy

There are factors in Honolulu, Hawaii that made living on the street easy. It’s easy to be poor, as long as you don’t want for more. The ease of poverty here is both a good news, bad news story. All my needs and some of my wants… When I was in my 20’s I was…

July 11, 2022
Homeless with class–possible?

I tried to have class when I was homeless, like almost all homeless people but some don’t care. Now everyone has a problem.

July 8, 2022
HAWAII STREET LIFE HACK #8: HARD WON WISDOM FOR EVERYDAY PEOPLE

July 8, 2022