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Sexual Identity is, in a way, task based. We make a public, permanent declaration of how we will do that activity prior to ever doing it.
Why is sexual Identity permanent? If a middle school age fkid says “I’m an astrophysicist. I have known it since I was 3. I was born this way and will always be this way,” we would smile indulgently, perhaps be supportive, maybe try to talk sense into him. We would not expect commitment. Test if…
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The Worst Thing About Life and Death Decisions is This
life and death decisions suck because they masquerade as nonevents and catch us off guard and not knowing who to blame
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I’ve received no positive suggestions
I’m grateful for the honesty. No one offered me false hope. It’s not the void that devastates, it’s the dream deferred, the false hope. There’s the law of attraction but there’s also the law of harsh reality and that’s the one that applies to me. I said I wouldn’t lie to you and I won’t.…
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There’s a lot of pressure to be positive. Is it taboo to admit I’m discouraged and haven’t come out on the other side yet
There’s so much we are supposed to do every day. Exercise. Meditate. Pray. Slowly eat small portions of mostly vegetable meals off of blue plates. Do puzzles to stay mentally sharp. Develop your spirituality. Apologize. Forgive. Do a daily moral inventory. And that’s before breakfast. I know all of this from the email alerts about…
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One Unappealing Reason Women Want Threesomes
Had the four of us that were involved in the threesomenot been so dishonest and self serving we might have enjoyed it but as it was the group sex was really no fun. Here’s why
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Final Expense Life Insurance Commercial Capitalizes on the Human Tendency to Avoid the Uncomfortable so Blatantly it is Amusing
There is a commercial that exploits the human tendency to lie to ourselves and not deal with what is coming by not thinking about things
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A Surprising Fact an X-Hooker Knows That Non-Pro Women Don’t Know–But Should

Behind every great man there is a great woman playing mommy to him and he knows he can’t make it without her but he cannot overcome his nature that causes him to desire meaningless sex with others. Oh well
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Does anyone else feel nauseated after working for long at a computer or a text book?
I know this feeling is not just related to the computer, because I remember feeling this way in high school when I scrawled pages of reports in my awful handwriting on yellow lined paper. I worked until I was in a cold sweat and had to lie down for a little while. Like I will…
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I Would Never Expect An Intellectual to Look Like This True and Recent Picture of the Busty Brown Skinned Beauty who Authors This Blog

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: Just showing my picture with my writing sends a message. The writing is good, if I do say so myself. I will admit that I would not expect a person who looks like this woman to have written my words,…
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I Would Never Expect An Intellectual to Look Like This True and Recent Picture of the Busty Brown Skinned Beauty who Authors This Blog

This picture paired with the words goes a long way to challenging prejudices like mine, because I know I would never have expected this woman to write these words, but the fact that I am this woman and I know I did the writing challenges my own notions about what is true. Prejudices against certain…
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None of my associates are rooting for my success, so they don’t read my blog, and I feel pretty free to write about them while maintaining their anonymity bc they’ll never know. Wait til you hear about the famous criminals I kinda know–
In Honolulu chances are better than good that we are all connected to each other through shared acquaintances, or friends of friends. There’s an effort to clean out some of the corruption in a local government that is heavily reliant on who you know and who you are related to. It looks like the former…
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YouTube Video Post Bus Accident

The only one hurt was the Acura that was in the wrong place at the wrong time. In the 10 minutes I recorded after we were allowed to get off the bus after it nearly took the door off of the Acura. In this film you will see remarkable racial diversity. You will get to…
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This Scorpio is going to put the Law of Attraction in Action on Day 1 of My Birthday Month with Predictions That will be reality One Year From Today
Yes, I am a Scorpio. Based on everything I think I know about the zodiac this sign is common among the people who are extreme: very sensual, very loyal, very intelligent, very revengeful. That sounds about right to me, about me. I am going to formulate a list of predictions that are short, sweet, and…
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From Harvard to Homeless to Homey to Hooker
Monday, November 19, 2018I have a morbid sense of humor. I find amusement in things that others might find depressing, upsetting, even mean…I readily make myself the brunt of a joke if it makes me laugh. This practice is called “gallows humor.” I always understood gallows humor to be the jokes people made between themselves…
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Does the Following Statement Make Me Sound Hopelessly Insecure and Irredeemably Jealous…or Am I Normal?
Am I “regular person crazy,” which means being dysfunctional in the usual ways–or is my jealousy unusual?
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Here’s how to go from spending time to time well spent
How do you go from spending time to time well spent–by sharing the memories that create your life with people who can give you a new point of view and hence a new life.
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Part III: I Know How To Beat A Polygraph From My Time in Prison Where the Guards Were More Criminal Than Their Charges
THE DREAM OF A BIG AND QUICK PAYDAY Women at the Women’s Community Correctional Center in Kailua, Hawaii, and the Oahu Community Correctional Center, in Honolulu, Hawaii saw women who went before them and did what people always say is wise. They tried to learn from history and take lessons from those who came before…
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Did You Know There Would be So Much Death
I thought physical aging was the worst part of getting old and believe me it is no picnic to go from beautiful to very attractive, bu the worst part of aging is the inevitable loss of everybody. I had no idea.
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Part II: How I Beat a Polygraph. I Didn’t Get Any Prison Lawsuit Money but I Got A Different Reward
I beat the polygraph not on purpose but because my quirky thought process was incomprehensible to a machine that measured linear reasoning and reactions, not tangentiality.
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Am I Wrong About What The Letters in “LGBTQ” Stand For?
How am I supposed to know what every letter in LGBTQ stands for?



