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In the United States,if you become a defendant in a criminal case, you’re entitled to an attorney but you’re not entitled to one on that’s on your side.

How do I know the public defender I had was not on my side? I got to be in the same situation at first broke, then, with money and I saw the changes.
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If Your Man is Addicted, or Really Into, Porn, Try Tactics on This List

X-Hooker Life Hack #52:
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A Threesome with Two Guys is Different Than Two Women

Threesomes with two guys can be different than two women but still guys rule
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Coronavirus is hobbling factories in Cambodia, Vietnam, Myanmar — Quartz–This article makes me think of the impact of our addictions

We think we are in life alone but maybe we all matter in ways we cannot imagine.
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The only way for most of us to possess land in Honolulu has unfortunate timing. Unless we can be ghosts… sobriety in the midst of inequality not necessarily tempting

To possess land in Honolulu, most of us will have to die first. Sobriety in poverty is reality and not necessarily tempting.
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Original Happiness Lessons From One Who Seldom Hears Anything New

I am a knowledgeable person with some unique how to be happy lessons to share
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If Men Knew How They Looked Holding a Tiny Kitten…
How can men use cats to make themselves sexually appealing to women?
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My Threesome (3Some) Error

Even though I was engaged in Non-traditional sex, I had to be on the lookout for biases, assumptions, and other forms of mental rigidity. Threesome participation does not guarantee an open mind.
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I’ve spent time in prison so I’m going to give you a first person prison account in this category of posts, the likes of which you’ve never seen!

Harvard grad and convicted felon of a crime the state of Hawaii now acknowledges is no biggie so let’s expunge the record post conviction, I have a unique perspective about incarceration. This post discusses make abandonment of imprisoned women.
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Pioneering Rappers Owe Women an Apology

Rap Royalty needs To do a re-write of All misogynist lyrics in existence and stop wasting the chance To show the world How To revere Women, especially black Women, Your Women.
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Real Video of SemiNude X-Hooker With an Opinion

let’s check out this video link
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X-Hooker Life Hack #37: Never Take Opinions About Your Appearance As Total Truth

X-Hooker Life Hack:Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the beholder may be a pervert, do don’t trip out if he doesn’t find you attractive. This incident I experienced as an escort drives home the point that we need to divorce our self worth from what he says. It’s hard but you can…
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Controversy Warning: Unity Among Men Not Women, others with minority status

Bro’s Before Ho’s is an expression that accurately reflects men’s tendency to be loyal to each other before they are loyal to females. Men, especially white men, stick together, and other successful groups do as well. If blacks and women defined success as being with each other instead of getting away from each other, we…
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Suffering through a sudden death, like Kobe Bryant’s? I have a wee bit of comfort for mourners based on my experience.

How to wrest a sliver of comfort out of the shock of sudden death, like Kobe Bryant’s death.
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Here is one sure way to know you’re an addict

I was obsessed with drugs even in prison when I couldn’t get them and the thoughts were irrational and counterproductive
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Abortion Rights, the 47th Anniversary of the Supreme Court Decision Reminds Me of the Person With the Most Regret

The woman behind the Supreme Court abortion decision regretted taking her fight so far, but there was no going back and remorse haunted her. Abortion is simple but not easy. Make any choice an informed choice.
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American Culture Demands We Hide Shame. I guess that’s why I flee from the “L” word.

Someone expressed interest in me. Maybe, I thought. But then he said it was obvious that I was lonely. I felt like he knew I was a loser and was rubbing it in. I couldn’t bear to see him again. It may be true, but don’t say it and make it real.
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Addicts are Predictable and Infuriating

Doing the Same unwise thing, getting the same expected bad results. Another form of insanity afflicting those who deal with addicts. We had torrential rain and wind in Honolulu this January 2020. I remembered what it was like to be homeless in the rain and I invited an associate ( not a friend) to spend…
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“How did you know you’d never have an abortion?”

I decided in 7th grade I’d never have an abortion and I was true to my word by continually expanding my definition of Pro-life




