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Category: Double Standards

Working girls fit into Male fantasy of model woman

The best course of action for a working girl is to never talk to a client about her other clients. If he says he wants to know it is BC he is framing her time with others as something in which he can take pleasure. Never, ever does a guy want to think of her…

June 5, 2021
Honolulu has many judgemental drug dealers

The Fun of Condemning Others I have noticed that when people engage in behavior that’s not socially acceptable, they readily point out others who are, in their opinion, “worse.” They concede that their actions are not ok, but their behavior is not as bad as it could be. In truth, the very thing they say…

March 16, 2021
“Manterruption” vs “No Means No”. See linked Tweet

twitter.com/studentofdra/status/1314697278024712198 Manterruption is a term I just learned. The definition I’ve linked explains in more detail than I am going to, but to summarize, it’s men interrupting women bc they automatically feel there’s nothing a woman says they are bound to respect or even wait out. Am reminded of why I hate the phrase “no…

October 14, 2020
A man believes every word he speaks is gold, but can he listen to a woman?

Women have to say “no means no.” It is not just that men don’t listen to women when it most matters. Like when women say they may be near a bed but they don’t want to get in. Men do not admit to hearing the “no” as they wheedle, cajole, and even pressure for sex.…

June 30, 2020
How does a trick explain the secret to the longevity of his marriage to his long term hooker?

If you are at the point of having a private eye follow your spouse things are messed up already. It’s pointless to monitor people. If you have to ask the question You already know the answer. You don’t see me asking my wife where she goes and she doesn’t ask me. But the main thing…

June 13, 2020
If you are brainwashed into believing it is ok to sexualize little girls, this next sentence will shock you

Remember the little girl who was murdered in Colorado? The child beauty queen? If I change one element of the little girl as beauty queen scenario I can show you you may be as brainwashed about gender roles as I am.

August 19, 2019
Would-be Tricks Are INFURIATED if you don’t Give Credit

Isn’t it unbelievably presumptuous to ask, no demand, a stranger give credit? A few guys felt entitled to have a woman NOW. They’d get seriously angry when I declined. I used to say, “How about this? Why don’t you give me the money now and I’ll give my solemn word to see you next week.”…

August 5, 2019