Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say

Author: Tangee Lazarus, REALTOR(c), exceeding expectations

Hooker Life Hack 11/27/18

Be very careful when you help an addict or receive help from an addict. For some people giving or receiving help is a means to victimize others. My peers and I were your garden-variety narcissists, sociopaths, egomaniacs, the addicted– we powerfully resented even the speculation that someone might have helped us. Interdependence is anathema to…

November 27, 2018
What do I have in common with a cannibal?More than I care to admit

I have found common ground with a famous cannibalistic serial killer. Me and Jeffrey Dahmer… Who would have thought?

November 25, 2018
Hooker Hacks #2

No one wants to pay for bygone fun. Always get the money upfront so clients associate giving you money with pleasurable anticipation.

November 24, 2018
Hooker Life Hack#? (I’m sharing more of the real me by admitting I lost count on my hooker life hacks list)

There are many stories within a lifetime. One of these stories is a “good news, bad news” story. The good news is, you can get used to anything. But you know what the bad news is? You can get used to anything.

November 20, 2018
From Harvard to Homeless to Homey to Hooker

I went from Harvard graduate, Magna cum Laude (with high honors) to being homeless and turning to sex work to support myself and my drug habit, and being out there as a survivor was shameful and surprisingly thrilling.

November 19, 2018
Hooker Life Hack#6: Your “real life” is what’s passing you by as you wait for things to get back to normal

Plans for success morph into tales of days gone by

November 17, 2018
Hooker Hacks #4: The Importance of Appearance

Hooker Hack #4: The importance of Appearance

November 15, 2018
Hooker Hack #3: Joy is fragile, unlike grief

November 14, 2018
Of course Kanye West wants all four Kardahian sisters and maybe mom too! That’s a normal man for you

If we use the word “normal” to mean commonly occurring, then I must say it is normal for Kanye West to want all 4 Kardashian sisters, and probably at the same time. I mean no offense, simply giving my experience based opinion.

November 11, 2018
Hooker Hacks: Life Lessons For All

You have heard if life hacks, right? Pithy aphorisms that are short and sweet, simple to understand and out into action but unknown to many people. Einstein correctly believed that experience produces wisdom so we present working girl experience by proxy in Hooker Hacks. If you are arranging a meeting with a man by text…

November 8, 2018
GENERATION GAP

November 4, 2018
Prostitution Helps the Lonely Hearts, and There are a Lot of Those

It is not just clients who seek to alleviate loneliness, but a certain sex worker had the same trouble. Is it possible that contrary to what many well meaning sdvicates say, prostitution might serve somewhat of a positive purpose in the provider’s life?

November 2, 2018
Legal Status Diversity

A new social class of people is forming. The growing ranks of heroin addict are in this class, specifically those people who were incarcerated and now find themselves unemployable at the true level of their qualifications due to laws that turn all felonies and many misdemeanors into life sentence by closing off career paths to…

November 2, 2018
AdultLook Banner

AdultLook Banner

October 30, 2018
False Claims about Hookers

I scored an “A” in a college course called Poverty and the American Underclass. Imagine my surprise to discover I knew almost nothing about the socioeconomic class to which I was born and to which I would return in my addiction.

October 24, 2018
Why is”Gay Pride” shortened to just “Pride?”

It may seem unimportant that the gay pride parade is now called the pride parade but I am worried. Remember you read my predictions here first

October 20, 2018
I Knew I Was A Shallow Hooker for Caring, but Being Chosen Became Important to Me

Prostitution became a way for me to receive validation about my good looks. I liked feeling choosen.

October 17, 2018
Welcome to the Gutenberg Editor

Make me stand out on the road to riches. And not a road with an actual street corner!

October 13, 2018
A Banner from an Adult Entertainment Site October 2018

Here is the banner from Adultlook

October 13, 2018
A Provider Publicly Shared her HIV status and I thought “Safe Sex Sure Has Changed”

It was once unthinkable to contemplate sex without a condom. Now the HIV fear pendulum has swung to the side of indifference to condom use. I never thought I would see the day when a provider is shunned for insisting on a condom.

October 6, 2018
Prostitution in Honolulu: How I tried to use Ambesol to solve a problem

I was a hooker who did not like the sex. How to solve this problem?

October 2, 2018
Part II: Why my ban from Honolulu forum of an adult services site as a problematic provider was correct

The response I received about my efforts to censor mongers so I could feel safer was harsh and true.

September 22, 2018
Why the administrator of an adult services site was right to ban a provider’s posts” Part I

I was always trying to prove my worth by changing people’s minds about me. My agenda, hidden even from me, was wrapped in intellectualism but was highly emotional.

September 22, 2018