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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
Secret relationships in Honolulu are common yet many never imagine the secrets professional men hold.
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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
The fascinating unlikely long term relationships between sex workers and clients somewhat conform to traditional relationship standards.
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How did it feel to stand on the street waiting for a date?
Loneliness had a profound effect on me in a surprising way, although some would say I was a prime candidate to do what I did
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Capital Punishment for Everyday Women? A popular show indicates it happens often
Women refuse men sex at their own risk.
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Taboo Honolulu–why do I really write about the forbidden?
Here is a vulnerability I have avoided in the years of writing about Honolulu taboos.
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I interviewed pimps, about what they had to offer
I was going to write a post mocking Honolulu pimps but my writing exposed the racism and loneliness within me that kept me from understanding a deeper truth about the pimp-sex worker ideal relationship.
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Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?
Older sex workers are more successful than you might think
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Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?
Surprising truth about older sex workers.
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Sex workers have difficulty when they hate their work and when they enjoy it
A sex worker can find that enjoying her work backfires on her.
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Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime
Yes, sex workers have boyfriends who understand the work is not about sex.
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Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime
Surprised sex workers have boyfriends? You should not be surprised, especially if she is on the street. Let me be perfectly clear so I do not get criticized for playing into stereotypes and over generalizing. Not all sex workers are addicts. There are women, and men, who find the advantages of sex work over, say,…
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The Experience of being arrested for Honolulu street prostitution
How did it feel to get caught engaging in Honolulu street prostitution?
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The Experience of being arrested for street prostitution
Here is how it felt to be targeted by undercover Honolulu police in a sting to catch street prostitutes.
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I Never say Blacks are just as good as whites.
Black and white. Here is a new way to frame old ideas of equality. Opinions?
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Loneliness is what changes sex worker-client interaction from oppression to relationship
Sex work is about loneliness for the client and amazingly, the worker. Surprising stereotype busting truths
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Panhandlers are surprisingly organized
The surprising true story behind people on the street holding signs
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The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most
Link to article about the mist sexualized and most popular women’s sports. Coincidence?
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The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most
Can female sports capture public interest without sexualizing participants. Will we get the chanced to find out?
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Early Thoughts About Saying Yes to crack
Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: I want to give you some if my thinking in the early days of the blog. In a nutshell, I went to crack bc I had done everything I was supposed to do to be successful and happy yet I…
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“Fun is Not Always a Team Sport,” said the selfish man I loved
“Fun is not always a team sport” is a philosophy that explains why some men see sex workers
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Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work
Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: Thursday, July 22, 2021, 11:33 p.m., Honolulu, Hawaii Remember Winona, age 60 something? She might have had a stroke I say “might” because when she was stricken with whatever made her seriously ill, she only stayed in the hospital a…
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Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work
I never thought aging on the streets of Honolulu and dealing with disability and death would be issues I would have to face one way or another, but I was wrong. What is my obligation and will anyone be obligated to me?
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A Secret: Prison Can Give A Heart’s Desire, Unbeknownst to the World
Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: WHAT IS ONE THING PEOPLE WANT? People want to be loved and values by the people who matter to them. When someone goes to prison of course there is a physical separation. But on an emotional level you will have…
Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say 