Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say

Author: Tangee Lazarus, REALTOR(c), exceeding expectations

Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…

Secret relationships in Honolulu are common yet many never imagine the secrets professional men hold.

August 20, 2021
Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…

The fascinating unlikely long term relationships between sex workers and clients somewhat conform to traditional relationship standards.

August 20, 2021
How did it feel to stand on the street waiting for a date?

Loneliness had a profound effect on me in a surprising way, although some would say I was a prime candidate to do what I did

August 18, 2021
Capital Punishment for Everyday Women? A popular show indicates it happens often

Women refuse men sex at their own risk.

August 17, 2021
Taboo Honolulu–why do I really write about the forbidden?

Here is a vulnerability I have avoided in the years of writing about Honolulu taboos.

August 15, 2021
I interviewed pimps, about what they had to offer

I was going to write a post mocking Honolulu pimps but my writing exposed the racism and loneliness within me that kept me from understanding a deeper truth about the pimp-sex worker ideal relationship.

August 14, 2021
Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?

Older sex workers are more successful than you might think

August 12, 2021
Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?

Surprising truth about older sex workers.

August 12, 2021
Sex workers have difficulty when they hate their work and when they enjoy it

A sex worker can find that enjoying her work backfires on her.

August 7, 2021
Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime

Yes, sex workers have boyfriends who understand the work is not about sex.

August 5, 2021
Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime

Surprised sex workers have boyfriends? You should not be surprised, especially if she is on the street. Let me be perfectly clear so I do not get criticized for playing into stereotypes and over generalizing. Not all sex workers are addicts. There are women, and men, who find the advantages of sex work over, say,…

August 5, 2021
The Experience of being arrested for Honolulu street prostitution

How did it feel to get caught engaging in Honolulu street prostitution?

August 1, 2021
The Experience of being arrested for street prostitution

Here is how it felt to be targeted by undercover Honolulu police in a sting to catch street prostitutes.

August 1, 2021
I Never say Blacks are just as good as whites.

Black and white. Here is a new way to frame old ideas of equality. Opinions?

July 31, 2021
Loneliness is what changes sex worker-client interaction from oppression to relationship

Sex work is about loneliness for the client and amazingly, the worker. Surprising stereotype busting truths

July 31, 2021
Panhandlers are surprisingly organized

The surprising true story behind people on the street holding signs

July 30, 2021
The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most

Link to article about the mist sexualized and most popular women’s sports. Coincidence?

July 29, 2021
The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most

Can female sports capture public interest without sexualizing participants. Will we get the chanced to find out?

July 29, 2021
Early Thoughts About Saying Yes to crack

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: I want to give you some if my thinking in the early days of the blog. In a nutshell, I went to crack bc I had done everything I was supposed to do to be successful and happy yet I…

July 27, 2021
“Fun is Not Always a Team Sport,” said the selfish man I loved

“Fun is not always a team sport” is a philosophy that explains why some men see sex workers

July 26, 2021
Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: Thursday, July 22, 2021, 11:33 p.m., Honolulu, Hawaii Remember Winona, age 60 something? She might have had a stroke I say “might” because when she was stricken with whatever made her seriously ill, she only stayed in the hospital a…

July 23, 2021
Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work

I never thought aging on the streets of Honolulu and dealing with disability and death would be issues I would have to face one way or another, but I was wrong. What is my obligation and will anyone be obligated to me?

July 23, 2021
A Secret: Prison Can Give A Heart’s Desire, Unbeknownst to the World

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: WHAT IS ONE THING PEOPLE WANT? People want to be loved and values by the people who matter to them. When someone goes to prison of course there is a physical separation. But on an emotional level you will have…

July 21, 2021