Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say

Month: July 2021

I Never say Blacks are just as good as whites.

Black and white. Here is a new way to frame old ideas of equality. Opinions?

July 31, 2021
Loneliness is what changes sex worker-client interaction from oppression to relationship

Sex work is about loneliness for the client and amazingly, the worker. Surprising stereotype busting truths

July 31, 2021
Panhandlers are surprisingly organized

The surprising true story behind people on the street holding signs

July 30, 2021
The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most

Link to article about the mist sexualized and most popular women’s sports. Coincidence?

July 29, 2021
The most popular women’s sports sexualized women the most

Can female sports capture public interest without sexualizing participants. Will we get the chanced to find out?

July 29, 2021
Early Thoughts About Saying Yes to crack

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: I want to give you some if my thinking in the early days of the blog. In a nutshell, I went to crack bc I had done everything I was supposed to do to be successful and happy yet I…

July 27, 2021
“Fun is Not Always a Team Sport,” said the selfish man I loved

“Fun is not always a team sport” is a philosophy that explains why some men see sex workers

July 26, 2021
Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: Thursday, July 22, 2021, 11:33 p.m., Honolulu, Hawaii Remember Winona, age 60 something? She might have had a stroke I say “might” because when she was stricken with whatever made her seriously ill, she only stayed in the hospital a…

July 23, 2021
Geriatric Hookers–Aging, Addiction, and Sex Work

I never thought aging on the streets of Honolulu and dealing with disability and death would be issues I would have to face one way or another, but I was wrong. What is my obligation and will anyone be obligated to me?

July 23, 2021
A Secret: Prison Can Give A Heart’s Desire, Unbeknownst to the World

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: WHAT IS ONE THING PEOPLE WANT? People want to be loved and values by the people who matter to them. When someone goes to prison of course there is a physical separation. But on an emotional level you will have…

July 21, 2021
What was the most used drug among Honolulu Female Inmates?

There is a lot I know about women in prison and thousands have demanded more input from my memories. Today, drugs, women, prison.

July 21, 2021
An Adoptee Comforts an Adoptive Mom with Painful Truths

An Adoptee Comforts an Adoptive Mom with Painful Truths Hi I am Caroleena and I am both an adoptee and a birth mother. There’s a lot to be said about both of those positions, but I want to focus on your heartbreak, because I understand where you are coming from and I hope I can…

July 19, 2021
An Adoptee Comforts an Adoptive Mom with Painful Truths

Originally posted on "Harvard" Hooker in Honolulu: Hi I am Caroleena and I am both an adoptee and a birth mother. There’s a lot to be said about both of those positions, but I want to focus on your heartbreak, because I understand where you are coming from and I hope I can…

July 19, 2021
I do not have it in me to trust people

I tried to make arrangements to have someone watch my cat and my car with someone while I went on vacation. I could not believe anyone would do anything for me out of the goodness of their hearts. I start out believing but as hours, minutes, go by, I become increasingly convinced that no one…

July 13, 2021
I sheepishly admit to being jealous of a sexy, beautiful, smart woman who is what I am not–successful

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: https://www.msn.com/en-us/sports/nba/olympian-allyson-felix-says-nike-was-beyond-disrespectful-when-asking-her-to-be-in-female-empowerment-ads-while-privately-disputing-maternity-protections/ar-AALVdic?ocid=winp1taskbar Jealousy is on of America’s taboos People get jealous. But we are not supposed to be jealous. We are supposed to be bigger than jealousy, to want the best for others, to applaud the success we ourselves never attained.…

July 11, 2021
I sheepishly admit to being jealous of a sexy, beautiful, smart woman who is what I am not–successful

Beauty, Brains, Talent” and Success Are Nor Everything. There is one more thing that can transform a loser unto a winner in the place that counts most. Good for me because I get attacked by jealousy when I am confronted by who I might have been had I been on the straight and narrow. I…

July 10, 2021
Prostitutes List Tricks as Their Emergency Contacts

Relationships are Complex I had preconceived notions about people engaged in off track behavior when I first entered the world of drug users. These ideas were shattered to hell by realities I could never have guessed. The process of replacing wrong, long held and immutable stereotypes with new information that differs from person to person,…

July 5, 2021
How do we rehabilitate when no one can define “habilitate?

https://www.quora.com/Does-prison-rehabilitate-criminals-or-harden-criminals-based-on-sentence-length/answer/Lessons-From-Harvard-to-Handcuffs-in-Hawaii?ch=10&share=7b0f1258&srid=1LASI

July 3, 2021
Is rehabilitation happening in prison??

July 1, 2021