Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say

Month: October 2019

From Harvard to Homeless to Homey to Hooker

Monday, November 19, 2018I have a morbid sense of humor. I find amusement in things that others might find depressing, upsetting, even mean…I readily make myself the brunt of a joke if it makes me laugh. This practice is called “gallows humor.” I always understood gallows humor to be the jokes people made between themselves…

October 31, 2019
Does the Following Statement Make Me Sound Hopelessly Insecure and Irredeemably Jealous…or Am I Normal?

Am I “regular person crazy,” which means being dysfunctional in the usual ways–or is my jealousy unusual?

October 31, 2019
Here’s how to go from spending time to time well spent

How do you go from spending time to time well spent–by sharing the memories that create your life with people who can give you a new point of view and hence a new life.

October 31, 2019
Part III: I Know How To Beat A Polygraph From My Time in Prison Where the Guards Were More Criminal Than Their Charges

THE DREAM OF A BIG AND QUICK PAYDAY Women at the Women’s Community Correctional Center in Kailua, Hawaii, and the Oahu Community Correctional Center, in Honolulu, Hawaii saw women who went before them and did what people always say is wise. They tried to learn from history and take lessons from those who came before…

October 30, 2019
I figured out why we have such mixed feelings about the police–we are asking them to do what they are not supposed to do and I know why

October 30, 2019
Shaking up what we “know” to be true is my purpose and there’s a lot of so-called “truth” to dispute

I have held some truths to be self evident that were simply not true and I wonder how wrong I am right now without even knowing it.

October 28, 2019
Did You Know There Would be So Much Death

I thought physical aging was the worst part of getting old and believe me it is no picnic to go from beautiful to very attractive, bu the worst part of aging is the inevitable loss of everybody. I had no idea.

October 28, 2019
Part II: How I Beat a Polygraph. I Didn’t Get Any Prison Lawsuit Money but I Got A Different Reward

I beat the polygraph not on purpose but because my quirky thought process was incomprehensible to a machine that measured linear reasoning and reactions, not tangentiality.

October 27, 2019
Am I Wrong About What The Letters in “LGBTQ” Stand For?

How am I supposed to know what every letter in LGBTQ stands for?

October 26, 2019
No matter how kinky things get, this activity rarely happens with hookers and tricks

October 25, 2019
PART I: I Know How To Beat a Polygraph…a ripple effect of an inmate subculture that condones sexual misconduct w/ staff in hopes of suing

I heard a lot about how the female inmates profited from their time at a privately run prison in Kentucky where they intentionally seduced the 18 year old guards, had them charged with rape, and won big settlements. It’s beautiful when a plan comes together.

October 23, 2019
Thankfully I Now Know the First Signs of Being Blown Off

Today, people do not officially end relationships with a final conversation that is supposed to give closure, but just stop calling and texting with or without a cursory comment about being busy. It is called “ghosting.” I was just “ghosted” in spite of my hope in friendship but I am glad I know the trend…

October 21, 2019
The most correctly quoted and totally misunderstood phrase in the Bible

people really want to feel that their cruelty makes them one of the good guys.

October 19, 2019
Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, teach him to fish, you feed him for life. Give a man a drug, you hurt him for a day, teach him to self destruct, you destroy him for life.

Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, teach him to fish, you feed him for life. Give a man a drug, you hurt him for a day, teach him to self destruct, you destroy him for life.

October 19, 2019
Sex Question: How can you gauge his intentions in bed?

Originally posted on Hawaii Street Life-smart & sexy experience based commentary others dare not say: SexQuestion: What is a sure sign that a guy is not being honest when he says her pleasure is his most important priority?SexAnswer: When a guy does not ask her what she wants, does not solicit feedback during the encounter,…

October 16, 2019
Sex Question: How can you gauge his intentions in bed?

How can you tell if he means it when he says your pleasure is his highest priority?

October 16, 2019
To All Adoptees: My Parents Met in 1973 When They Were Both Patients in a South Carolina Psych Hospital

My birth parents met in a mental hospital where they were both patients and my first crime was paying a searcher $2800 to illegally access my sealed adoption records so I could know my story. Now I will present my story to you to help you along and provide answers to questions about how I…

October 16, 2019
Baby Mama and Baby Daddy are titles that show the sad state of society in many ways

The terms “baby mama” and “baby daddy” aren’t just bad grammatically but show a distressing acceptance of impermanent sexual unions that produce children.

October 11, 2019
What an x-hooker knows that you need to hear: Ladies, football knowledge is a useful tool for manipulation

October 11, 2019
Riddle: if you are honest about this one thing, no one will believe you about anything

Not everyone is what they do, but liars deserve to be known as such and do not waste time trying to get the truth

October 9, 2019
A Hooker Learns the Hard Way: Know the Precise Meaning of Online Dating Language

A hooker learns the hard way that it’s necessary to understand online lingo or there could be unexpected trouble

October 8, 2019
“VSCO girl” is a style trend I had to learn about via Urban Dictionary, and here’s the opinion of x-streetwalker

I got my breasts enlarged to see how a new body would fell and now what must I do to discover fitting in, as if I were an VSCO girl.

October 7, 2019
Why Do Gay People Often Make Heterosexuality Their Norm?

gay couples have one person in the male role and one person in the female role, to the point where one actually looks feminine and the other masculine so onlookers can clearly tell the difference, but isn’t that a rejection of homosexuality?

October 5, 2019